GRIEF QUOTES III

quotations about grief

The person who grieves, suffers his passion to grow upon him; he indulges it, he loves it; but this never happens in the case of actual pain, which no man ever willingly endured for any considerable time.

EDMUND BURKE

A Philosophical Enquiry into the Origin of Our Ideas of the Sublime and Beautiful


Grief is itself a med'cine.

WILLIAM COWPER

Charity

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Happiness is beneficial for the body but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind.

MARCEL PROUST

In Search of Lost Time

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Shake hands with Pain, give greeting unto Grief,
Those angels in disguise, and thy glad soul
From height to height, from star to shining star,
Shall climb and claim blest immortality.

ELLA WHEELER WILCOX

"Immortality"

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There is an art to grieving. To grieve well the loss of anyone or anything--a parent, a love, a child, an era, a home, a job--is a creative act. It takes attention and patience and courage. But many of us do not know how to grieve. We were never taught, and we don't see examples of full-bodied grieving around us. Our culture favors the fast-food model of mourning--get over it quick and get back to work; affix the bandage of "closure" and move on.

ELIZABETH LESSER

Broken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow

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It does not require a flood of grief to drown a child's heart.

AUSTIN O'MALLEY

Keystones of Thought

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Faded smiles oft linger in the face,
While grief's first flakes fall silent on the heart!

ALFRED AUSTIN

"Unseasonable Snows", Soliloquies in Song

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Deep grief sometimes is almost like a specific location, a coordinate on a map of time. When you are standing in that forest of sorrow, you cannot imagine that you could ever find your way to a better place. But if someone can assure you that they themselves have stood in that same place, and now have moved on, sometimes this will bring hope.

ELIZABETH GILBERT

Eat


Ruin is strong and swift--
She outstrips them all by far, stealing a march,
leaping over the whole wide earth to bring mankind to grief.

HOMER

The Iliad

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In times of grief and sorrow I will hold you and rock you and take your grief and make it my own. When you cry I cry and when you hurt I hurt. And together we will try to hold back the floods to tears and despair and make it through the potholed street of life.

NICHOLAS SPARKS

The Notebook

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What most people don't realize is that after the funeral, the hard work of grieving is just beginning. Between three and nine months after the death, the full impact of the loss hits. You may find that a whole year goes by in which you use all your energy just to keep up the pretense of functioning. Gradually, you come to the realization that things will never go back to the way they were before your loved one died, but you will survive.

LORENE HANLEY DUQUIN

Grieving with the Help of Your Catholic Faith


Concealed griefs are the most consuming, as secret maladies are the most fatal.

ELIZA COOK

Diamond Dust

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If my neighbors manage to survive without killing themselves, without going mad, maintaining an interest in political parties, not yielding to despair, resolutely pursuing the fight for existence, can their griefs really be genuine?

OSAMU DAZAI

No Longer Human

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There is no grief like the grief that does not speak.

ELIZA COOK

Diamond Dust


The greatest griefs are those we cause ourselves.

SOPHOCLES

Oedipus Rex

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How long shall I harbor sorrow in my soul, grief in my heart day after day? Look, answer me, O Lord, my God!

DAVID

Psalms 13:3-4

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To weep is to make less the depth of grief.

WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE

King Henry VI, Part III

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People talk as if grief were just a feeling -- as if it weren't the continually renewed shock of setting out again and again on familiar roads and being brought up short by the grim frontier post that now blocks them.

C. S. LEWIS

letter to Sir Henry Willink, December 3, 1959

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Grief tears his heart, and drives him to and fro,
In all the raging impotence of woe.

HOMER

The Iliad

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Immoderate grief is selfish, harmful, brings no advantage to either the mourner or the mourned, and dishonors the dead.

PLUTARCH

"Consolatio Ad Uxorem"

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