MANNERS QUOTES II

quotations about manners

Good manners without sincerity are like a beautiful dead lady.

YUKTESWAR GIRI

Autobiography of a Yogi


Manners are incidental to moral choices because they are benign expressions of character, and irrelevant to the particulars of a given choice. The fact that manners so readily dissociate from character suggests that, as far as virtue is concerned, they are not ingredients but accoutrements.

JASON W. BROWN

Process and the Authentic Life


Manners must adorn knowledge, and smooth its way through the world. Like a great rough diamond, it may do very well in a closet by way of curiosity, and also for its intrinsic value; but it will never be worn, nor shine, if it is not polished.

PHILIP STANHOPE

letter to his son, July 1, 1748

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Manners aim to facilitate life, to get rid of impediments, and bring the man pure to energize. They aid our dealing and conversation, as a railway aids traveling, by getting rid of all avoidable obstructions of the road, and leaving nothing to be conquered but pure space.

RALPH WALDO EMERSON

"Manners", Essays

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It was growing late, and though one might stand on the brink of a deep chasm of disaster, one was still obliged to dress for dinner.

GEORGETTE HEYER

April Lady


The point that should be stressed here is that manners are not a coerced and external set of rules: manners are internalized rules, and the process of internalization creates a new kind of subject.

TED OWNBY

Manners and Southern History


We ought to esteem him alone an agreeable and good-natured man, who, in his daily intercourse with others, behaves in such a manner as friends usually behave to each other. For as a person of that rustic character appears, wherever he comes, like a mere stranger: so, on the contrary, a polite man, wherever he goes, seems as easy as if he were amongst his intimate friends and acquaintance.

GIOVANNI DELLA CASA

Galateo: Or, A Treatise on Politeness and Delicacy of Manners


Good manners set off a lowly garb.

PLAUTUS

attributed, Day's Collacon


Manners are not the be-all and end-all of human relationships, but they are certainly a good lubricant, a social WD40.

PAUL KROPP

I'll Be the Parent, You Be the Child


Eye nature's walks, shoot folly as it flies,
And catch the manners, living as they rise;
Laugh where we must, be candid where we can,
But vindicate the ways of God to man.

ALEXANDER POPE

An Essay on Man

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Manners are laws in their infancy.

HORACE MANN

Thoughts

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As the common forms of good manners were intended for regulating the conduct of those who have weak understandings; so they have been corrupted by the persons for whose use they were contrived.

JONATHAN SWIFT

A Treatise on Good Manners and Good Breeding

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For there is nothing settled in manners, but the laws of behavior yield to the energy of the individual. The maiden at her first ball, the countryman at a city dinner, believes that there is a ritual according to which every act and compliment must be performed, or the failing party must be cast out of this presence. Later, they learn that good sense and character make their own forms every moment, and speak or abstain, to take wine or refuse it, stay or go, sit in a chair or sprawl with children on the floor, or stand on their head, or what else soever, in a new and aboriginal way: and that strong will is always in fashion, let who will be unfashionable.

RALPH WALDO EMERSON

"Manners", Essays

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In our manners, tranquility is the supreme power.

MME. DE MAINTENON

attributed, Day's Collacon


A robot could be programmed to show good manners. A pleasant demeanor can disguise evil, courtesy can be a window of opportunism, gracious conduct may conceal disdain.

JASON W. BROWN

Process and the Authentic Life


Manners are necessary because, as a rule, there is a pretense; when our good opinion of others is genuine, manners look after themselves.

BERTRAND RUSSELL

Mortals and Others

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For if you suffer your people to be ill-educated, and their manners to be corrupted from their infancy, and then punish them for those crimes to which their first education disposed them, what else is to be concluded from this, but that you first make thieves and then punish them.

THOMAS MORE

Utopia


Virtue itself offends when coupled with forbidding manners.

BISHOP MIDDLETON

attributed, Treasury of Thought


There ought to be system of manners in every nation which a well-formed mind would be disposed to relish. To make us love our country, our country ought to be lovely.

EDMUND BURKE

Reflections on the Revolution in France

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Observe others manners and correct thy own.

CONRAD II

attributed, Day's Collacon